Trying a sex toy for the first time can feel exciting and a little intimidating. This practical guide walks you through choosing the right toy, cleaning and maintenance, and safe, satisfying use.

1. Choose the Right Toy for Your Needs

Start simple. For first-time users, consider:

• Vibrators — versatile and good for external stimulation.
• Wand or bullet vibrators — compact with focused power.
• Couples' toys — designed to be used during intercourse.

Look for body-safe materials (medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic) and read product descriptions carefully.

2. Cleanliness and Hygiene

Always clean toys before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. For porous materials (like some rubber), follow manufacturer guidance. Use condoms on toys if sharing between partners or switching between orifices.

3. Use the Right Lubricant

Water-based lubricants are generally safe with all toy materials. Avoid silicone-based lube with silicone toys unless the product explicitly allows it. Apply a small amount first and add more as needed.

4. Start Slow and Listen to Your Body

Begin on low intensity. Explore different angles, speeds, and rhythms. If something hurts, stop and adjust. For internal toys, always use plenty of lube and never force insertion.

5. Communication for Couples

When introducing toys with a partner, discuss boundaries, signals, and consent. Make it playful — use it as an opportunity to learn each other's preferences.